“All the women in Thailand are whores. I’m just going after the white girls.”
“Not all Thai women are whores! But some will want payment in exchange for sex. This isn’t like Europe or America, they don’t have the same standard western beliefs as we do. Prostitution isn’t taboo for Thais, it’s a large part of their culture and economy.”
“If you are so naïve or lazy that you feel you have to pay for sex every time, why would she not accept your donation in high tourist places like Pattaya and Samui…”
This is a conversation I recently had with a friend who is new to Thailand. Although wasn’t the entire truth, it does sum it up quite nicely.
The fact of the matter is, the country of Thailand is prostitution driven. There is a large portion of girls that will only have sex for money, we call these girls whores. But there is an even larger portion that will “accept” money for sex, but payment is not necessary.
Those of you familiar with this website know that we separate all Thai girls into four categories.
This post will focus on two of the four: Freelance Girls and Good Girls.
For the rest of this post, we are going to defer to a good friend who is a member of the Kings of Thailand community.
This man prefers to stay unanimous.
One year ago I had a question for him. “You’ve been living in Bangkok for six months now, how many girls have you paid for?”
“Zero.”
“Impressive! You don’t speak Thai, you’re not rich, and it’s not like you’re the Brazilian model type. What’s been your method?”
He laughs and and explains how easy it is to take home girls for free in Bangkok. The rest of this post will be a summary of what he had to say. The following advice has been proven to be successful:
A few things you need to know about my friend:
1- He gets laid whenever he want in Bangkok
2- He never pays for sex in Bangkok
3- If he doesn’t see a girl hot enough, he doesn’t lower his standards for an easy lay, he just goes home
Bangkok has many nice clubs which are full of beautiful women. In fact, it blows Chiang Mai, Phuket, and Samui out of the water. There is no shortage of women in Bangkok.
Most of the clubs will have three types of women: whores, freelancers, and good girls. I don’t waste my time with whores. I focus on the freelancers and good girls.
This is the method used:
1- Don’t Show Interest Too Soon
Don’t ask to take her home after 5 minutes. Don’t offer to buy her a drink as part of your introduction. Let her do something for you first, then reward her with a drink. Every time she does something that you like, reward her in some way. Let her work for your attention. (Very similar method as if you were to pick up a woman in your home country.)
2- Mind Frame
On an attractive scale, always act like you are a 9 and she is a 6. Don’t be a jerk about it, just make it clear that she is cute, but that doesn’t impress you. She needs more than a cute smile and a hot body.
3- Bribery
After an hour or so, start to let her know that you kind of like her and you’d like to see her tomorrow. Tell her you want to take her out to lunch and a name one of the expensive restaurants. Tell her you want to take her for drinks at Banyan Tree Hotel (Fancy rooftop bar in Bangkok).
Tell her you hate her shoes and that you are taking her shoe shopping tomorrow to buy her a new pair.
Use one of the above bribery methods.
4- Invite Her to Your Place
After a couple hours of the first three steps, it’s now time to take her home. Invite her over for a glass of wine (Thais love wine). But let her know she can only stay for 30 minutes because you have to get up early and work tomorrow (time constraint).
5- At Home
Once she is at your place, the difficult work is done. You don’t need to try that hard to close the deal. If for some reason she won’t stay over for the night, just set up a lunch tomorrow and send her home.
If at this point she asks for money, either you messed up one of the above steps or you took home a hardened professional. Use this as a learning experience.
The Morning After:
One major problem with Thai girls is, once you’ve slept with her, she may want the girlfriend experience and cling to you.
If this is the case and you don’t want to be tied down, then you have a little problem to deal with. You’ve got a very cute girl in your bed that you promised to do all these things with and you want her gone.
This is what you do: you wake up, have sex, and shower. When you are done with the shower, tell her you need to go to work and you’ll call her later. (Since you already told her you need to work early tomorrow, she’ll believe this. Even if you don’t have a job, tell her you work on the computer and you need your privacy.)
Make sure to exchange phone numbers with her and give her a hug. Only call later if you like her.
If you don’t like her that much, ignore her calls and text messages for 2 days and she’ll eventually get the hint.
To Recap:
1- Don’t show too much interest early on
2- Bribery works
3- Get her to your place
4- Have a plan to send her home in the morning
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BTW this method works anywhere in the world!
1. Talk to her for a few hours when you first meet and end up buying her a drink or two?
2. Take her shopping next day and buy some shoes?
3. Then take her for lunch
4. Then to your place with some wine
How many $$ and how much of your time will the above all take and without any guarantee of any bang for your bucks already spent.
Why not just offer the 1500 or 2000BHT, get what you wnat and send her on her way and at least your not leading her on or giving her any false hope?
I agree, paying cash is often the easy answer. But sometimes it’s fun to just play the game.
The hardcore freelancers will have not of this. But this can easily work with the part time freelancers who have hope of a normal life outside of the sex trade.
I’m Thai ,
and after i read you blog… ….What!??!!
why you said like that !
a lot of good girl,good culture
and just some crazy girl you can pay for sex What about good girl?
Please ..don’t abuse us!
Thanks for your comment.
True, this is not the nice guy approach to pick up, but it is an effective strategy.
Note: Nice guys tend to be the ones that get fucked over in Thailand if they visit unprepared and uninformed.
Hi i agree with you ther are alot of Good girls , can you introduce me one nice friend to learn Thai to have better understanding and communication, i love Thailand its heaven
as all people are Good except a few …………. which we can ignore
Ha, this is not a matchmaking website. You’ll have to do the work yourself and meet your own women
Enjoy paradise!
I agree. when the writer writes – “its a city / country with whores” that’s not true. though prostitution is widely accepted, (legally its banned) bangkok has only few areas where these things happen (nana plaza, patpong, soi cowboy etc) and its a big city with its own culture, good families, good boys & girls.. (you picking up girls in this manner may be your smartness; and you can apply this everywhere in the world with little difference; but this doesn’t make the girls – whores.. they just fascinate more in their teenages)..
but one thing i must say – thai girls (the good family girls you find in malls, metro rail, everywhere in town – wearing mostly shorts & minis) are very beautiful… and sweet..
IMO not cool to make promises just to get in her pants. You dont need to do it anyway. Just by virtue of being a foreigner with his shit together (e.g. not washed up old-fat-whoremonger) you are golddust to her.
To put this in perspective, if you goto somewhere like Sweden as a Brit or American with game, you can absolutely tear it up, because of two factors: 1) you’re exotic and 2) you can approach and escalate, which 99% of the native guys cant do (cultural conditioning)
The same holds for Thailand, PLUS…
-They see anything/anyone western as cool, modern,trendy
-There’s ALSO the financial difference – in Sweden for example girls will jump all over you even though they may well be richer than you. HERE, for alot of girls, you are orders-of-magnitude richer and better educated than her, even if she’s middle class with a decent job.
It really is candy from a baby.. the trick is just realising that, and acting accordingly.
Good advice, which is very useful no matter where you are.
Regarding step 3, as you mentioned, this is a personal preference. This is what works for a friend of mine. For the PUAs around the world, you can simply exchange the word “bribery” for “setting up a day 2″.
Thanks for your comment!
Just to clarify I think it’s all solid except step 3 which is icky. I prefer being authentic (while also not being a pussy), but it’s personal preference.
The difference with Thailand or most SE Asian countries vs. most western countries is you don’t need to be a PUA to meet and attract beautiful ladies. If you are tall, white and not a creepy old scumbag all you need to do is pretty much show up where there are women and they will approach YOU! However I’m half Asian and they all think I’m Thai (or whatever country I’m in) until they hear me speak. Once they know I’m from USA it’s over and takes little effort to get them to go home with you…skills with women will always help but are not as necessary as one might think. If you are an American / British etc. in Europe you still look like them and you have to make a move but if you’re 6’2″ white and in a room full of 5′ Asian women you stand out (pun intended) My advantage is I look Asian and they all want a guy that is not from their country but looks like he is…They all want a foreign guy but also one they can bring home to meet mom and dad and trust me it helps if you can pass for Asian
I’m Iranian and enjoy to sex with Thai girls.
Hi,
I’m American and I like to have sex with beautiful women whether they are Thai or not.
Now that we got basic introductions out of the way
I hope you enjoy the website and that it enhances your time in Thailand.
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What an odious, mysogynistic, con artist you are. The women referred to in the title are freelance sex workers. For anyone to want to con what are generally, and comparatively, very poor women selling their main assets, shows just what a heartless, woman-hater and abuser you really are. You know nothing about Thailand and much less about decent human relationships. Shame on you. I suggest you question your motives and start to learn a bit about decent human behaviour.
Haha, you make me laugh!!!
Vic, you are an ignoramus. If there’s one thing I like to see more than a nice neatly-trimmed Thai bush then that’s the disgruntled faces of bitter and twisted white women who, often for the first time, find that they cannot compete for the men. The girls you are referring to are indeed “freelance sex workers”. That is a very succinct, descriptive, functional and therefore apt term for them.
“Comparatively” poor? Compared to whom? I imagine you’ve factored the consumer price index into your calculations? “Generally”? How do you know? Or did a feminist-driven “study” reveal that they were all trafficked there by evil men too? Give it up dear. And put the kettle on whilst you’re at it.
Kings of Thailand
I fly to Thailand in December. If it does not work. I make official complaint
LoL
You’ll find it works with some and doesn’t work with others.
Play around with it and have fun!
I’m Australian and enjoy sex with Thai girls
The “speak like a gentleman, act like a dick” method – more politely “women love confidence” – works everywhere. Acting in a way that subconsciously makes them think of you as an important man is all biology, ingrained over countless generations prior to our modern, thinking, rational brain evolution.
In my point this might not be named as a strategy to only have sex over a night with someone but a way to overuse them
But on future i might use it and with some mix of my own ways if i really would like to stay with the girl over a time and maybe my stay time in Thailand
.. if you don’t know anyone’s language and cant communicate well with .. it does not mean she/he is unable to feel anything
True.
This is the preferred method of a friend of mine. I may use a variation of it every now and again. But lately in Bangkok my new strategy is to take the girl to more than one location and then “assume the close” by telling the taxi to take you home after you finish eating.
club / bar – different club – restaurant – my home
“The fact of the matter is, the country of Thailand is prostitution driven. ”
Maybe the obese person thinks his own country is driven by chocolate cake? We’re talking about the 2nd largest economy in South East Asia here. Who’d have thought that all that industrial and agricultural output is outperformed by a sub-section of the “leisure” industry!
Prostitution is generally looked down upon by “mainstream” Thais. Normal Thai women are also concerned about the image of Thai women abroad because of the publicity from Pattaya and Sukhumvit. They are, in fact, decent people like anywhere else. I’m not saying that many prostitutes aren’t nice people too but let’s not pretend that they are deemed on a par with nurses!
I am 35 years old , and live in pattaya around 1.5 year
I dont pay for sex and i fuck , good girls, bad girls, hokkers, and freelance… and i never pay for it…
my way is easy….
1. Find the one you like to fuck
2. Take hear out of her comfort place, that will say that i tell her that i will go and shoot some pool in another bar or pool house…. and ask if she wanne come whit me…. (95% say yes) when you play some pool whit here, tell her that you like ladys that like you and not only see you as a ATM, so you never pay for sex… just make a statment , dont discuss it and after that countinue talk about everything els…
3. after 1-2 houer i take her and go eat some chep thai food… 40-60 bath
4. and then its time to take her home around 01:00-02:00 so i ask her if i gone drive her home or if she like to go my place… BUT i will not pay you to stay… if you like me you can come… 80-90% will say okey and go becouse they already know about this all evning….
and if it not work, then i drive her home and i will fuck here in soon future… for free… becouse she like me… thats why she spend the all evning whit
Love it! And doing this all in the city that people believe it’s very difficult to take home a girl for free.
You’re spot on when you talk about making the statement of never paying for sex. When dealing with any kind of “working girl”, I will often say that upfront in the conversation in a way that leaves no room for negotiations.
Thanks for your comments.
Awesome site King! Thanks!
This place is alternate reality when it comes to getting laid. If you have an ounce of game and aren’t hideous looking, you’ll never have to jerk off again. I’ll give a few examples
1. I got laid last Saturday by driving up to a bar that was closing, asking a girl (freelancer) where she was going, told her I was going to the same place and asked her if she wanted a ride, along the way I asked her if she wanted to go my house and she said yes. Literally a 2 minute pull. She asked for “breakfast money” the next day and I gave her 60 baht.
2. I was at a school in an elevator and a girl (student) asked where I was going tonight and then gave me her number, I called her late that night after partying with my friends, met her at my bike and then went straight home and ……..
3. Every “good girl” I’ve taken out has slept with me on the first date. The date usuallys of a drink or two, a walk around near my place and then inviting them over.
I read this article about a year ago before I moved out here and can vouch for this stuff, its real boys!
Well done my friend. Sounds like you are living it up!
Thanks for all the advice. Going to Bangkok and Koh Samui next month!!
Hey! Nice website. Just want to give my comment on this… I’m a 24 year old guy.. pretty average.. from Europe..
I went to thailand a year ago, Bangkok, Phuket, Pattaya, Samui. If you want girls, i’ll recommend: Bangkok and Pattaya.
Phuket: only “pay” girls.. I fucked a tourist girl though… I dont like Phuket, expensive and to many tourists…. We got our ass kicked on a disco by the staff.. dunno what that was about.. maybe they dont like us taking their girls….
Samui: Full moon party is nice, lots of nice girls (swedish, english etc. but no thai girls). Not a good place if you want free “good” thai girls.
Pattaya: Excellent place! This is guys heaven.. If your a young foreign average/good looking guy, everything is possible here. Go to a club with your friends, spend some money on bottles and the girls are all over. Just invite them over to your table and you can take them home later if you want to. I took a 10 home one night… Yes she asked for money for gas for her bike (she took us home on her bike), so i gave her a little cash, but i could have refused… In pattaya p*ssy comes to you, dont worry… I could have get laid every night..
Bangkok: Like pattaya, find a good club with nice thai girls, spend some money and invite them over to you. I was very drunk one day, sat on a chair doing nothing when a nice little thai came over and asked if i would take her home to my hotel… hell, why not……..
Good luck… and… dont pay for girls…….
what a jerk a man could be ?!
Thats what ruins women in Thailand is jerks like you. If one night pussy is all you want, someone should cut it off.
Jesus Christ this is terrible advice! This guy is basically telling you how to rip-off prostitutes. This will not end well for you if you follow this advice and eventually it will catch up with you. Thais are incredibly vindictive and if they think you’ve caused them to lose face they will go out of there way to get even with you.
FYI, only prostitutes accept money for sex, same is true in Thailand.
“They’re not all whores, but if they can get away with it, they will allow you to pay them for sex. This isn’t like Europe or America, they don’t have the same standard western beliefs as we do. Prostitution isn’t taboo for Thais, it’s a large part of their culture and economy.”
“If you are so naïve or lazy that you feel you have to pay for sex every time, why would they not accept your donation in high tourist places like Pattaya and Samui…”
What a load of bullshit!!! This is wildly inaccurate and insulting to the Thai people.
Man, I’m reading some of the responses. Knee deep in bullshit!
“John” shame on you!
LOL! good luck guys. I’m sure I’m going to be called a hater but I can say with no degree of uncertainty 90% of this info is inaccurate.
Anyone that follows this advice good luck, you’re going to need it.
The irony of this misinformation, is that most Thai women will never date a western man because they don’t want to be viewed as gold digging Isaan girl or prostitute, specifically because they think all westerners think like the shit I’ve read above.
Thanks for your comments everyone. I especially love the haters.
What people often overlook is that this post is designed to teach you how to take home “freelancers” for free. This isn’t about dealing with bar girls, gogo dancers, hi-so girls, or good girls.
This is for when you are in tourist area clubs full of hot freelancers.
I like the advice about hooking up in Thailand. Give us more.
There is truth in what you say. I have a friend that networks with lovely hi society girls via university. The guy is slim. athletic, no tattoos and a medical doctor. The girls even take him out and they pay. I fXXXing hate the guy LOL
LoL, sounds like the guy is doing it right. Is he half Thai?
This is nothing but a guide for can’t-get-laid losers. Not all Thais want money for sex- that’s retarded thinking in the extreme and demonstrates a complete lack of culture. …American?
If you cannot get sex in the age of the Internet without paying, you might want to consider… I dunno… having a shower? Losing weight? Getting plastic surgery? Killing yourself?!
‘The Real Man’s Guide to Thailand’? More like ‘The Real LOSER’S Guide to Thailand’…
LoL
I’m a Thai girl . I understand the purpose of this site but I just want you to know that in my country have many kinds of woman , I accept that have many girls and womens sell their body in Thailand you can enjoy with them because they are willing to take care of their customers. but please sympathetic with good girls they just want a man who can love them and take care of them , they are sincere and they are serious about relationship so do not play with their heart!!!
ps. I wish you all a bad man enjoy to have sex with thai girls and gets big bonus likes HIV , gonorrhea, siphilis,Herpes simplex blah blah blah and death with a sexually transmitted disease. white man but depraved .
Thanks for your comment. Have a great day!
Fuck you! Asshole! You’re just an idiot and useless man. Go to fuck yourself bastard! You’re such a pimp. Your mom would have fed you with yo dad’s semen fo’sho.
That is not very nice
Dear all real men,
I don’t care when you focus on hooker, bar girl, freelance or some kind else that is their occupation but how can you focus on a good girl, lie to her, just for free making love, give her fault hope, treat her like the angle and leave her in a next day?
You just have fun but you can change her life forever.
Please don’t do like that if you are a human, not a cold blood animal.
In the future, may you have a daughter. She is a pure white good girl. She wants a guy who love her then she meet a guy as you. How is your feeling?
A good girl, We have parents, family, dream. We deserve to be a wife, not just a used toy.
now i know how to avoid this kind of man,thanks for a tricks
i’ve never known before till i found this site actually ~~~
This is designed for freelancers. So if you are one, you’re welcome for the heads up.
If you are a good girl, this doesn’t apply to you….or does it…
Almost of thai girls not always easy n not stupid
Actually, Thai girls are VERY easy to have sex with.
I am also a thai girl. I have been reading some of your stories, which you posted in this website. First of all, I would like to suggest that you should not use the domain name as a ” Kings of Thailand”. The reason of this is because it can mislead people to understand that you tried to discredit out beloved KING. If you would like to stay in Thailand without any difficulties, please be careful a little more.
As for your attitudes, well … I am certain that noone can change yours at this point. However, what I intend to write here is there are a lot of good girls in Thailand. By saying good girls, I see different than what you think. IMO , girls ,who are that easy to follow you home after some nice meals or clothes etc, are so “not” good Thai girls at all. If you have been in Thailand for a big while as you claimed, why wouldn’t have known such an easy fact?
Also, I see a lot of “UGLY” foreigners walking in Bangkok acting like they are so proud of being white men. However, the truth is you guys are “not” the prize at all. What you guys can be are more like a very old, fat, bald holding egos and poor.Lots of educated thai women profoundly know that those kind of white men are only the “loser” in their countries . This is because even white women ,who have the same species as them, find them so too disgusting to associate with. Poor you!
Thank god, I found this site.
I just lost trust in men. Thanks for showing me the reality.
I’ll share this page as much as I can.
Don’t worry girls. They will get back what they did.
I recommend you guys to not have even a daughter. She will grow up to be a toy to the number of men same as the number of women who you lie to.
Bless yourselves to not get a daughter. ;D
I have a question, are you really a man or a bitter woman out to make Thai ladies look bad? I am a Thai woman and think this website is sad and perfect mr loser king! Where are you from? How would you like if someone talk about your mum or sister like this , you give Thailand a bad name and disrespect our king by naming this website “the king of Thailand “
Thank you for your comment.
This website is no way disrespectful to the actual king of Thailand. The title of this website is merely a way to quickly describe the purpose of the site:
“How to live like a king in Thailand”. They are two very different things.
No matter how you word it this site and everything you talk about is disrespectful to our country and to the Thai women, why be so proud of treating ladies like shit and then boasting about it to all your sad readers.
How can you sleep at night knowing you are offending so many people. You should apologize to all the people you have offended.
Why you not answer me, what you have to hide, What country are you from? Would you be happy for my brother to treat your mother or sister like this? Don’t come back to Thailand. How long can you stay like this in your head, you need to growup and become a real man and stop being little boy and learn some respect!