Online dating can either be a complete waste of time or can be the best and easiest way to meet and sleep with very attractive Thai women.
Although online dating is not the only way of meeting Thai women, it can be very effective for the times that you are either outside of Thailand or simply too lazy to hit the clubs or bars.
There are more than 20 online dating website in Thailand, only a few of them worth your time. The first three are paid websites where you join for free to search profiles, then pay for a membership to contact the girls.
Below are the 5 websites that actually work!
• Thai Love Links
• Thai Love Lines
• Asia Friendfinder
• Date in Asia
• MSN Postjung
I am an active membership on all of these websites and have been using them for years. Each of these sites has different types of Thai women. And with 5 memberships, you’ll never be lonely in Thailand
Thai Love Links
This is the biggest and most popular site for online dating in Thailand. It is a paid website which cost about $30 a month. Even after all these years, this is still one of the best places to meet real Thai girls without much effort.
Thai Love Lines
The new kid on the block. Not as big or as popular as Thail Love Links, but this website still has a large amount of active female members. Cost of membership is $19.99 a month.
Asia Friendfinder
Very popular in Asia and especially in Bangkok. Most of these girls have good jobs and looking for a relationship. If you are visiting Thailand for the first time, use this website and Thai Love Links to set up dates in Bangkok before you even arrive. Tell the girls you are traveling to Thailand just to meet them, they love to hear this.
Date in Asia (Free Website)
Hit or miss! I’ll pull about two new girls a month from this website. You’ll have to filter through ladyboys and ugly girls, but this website is completely free. When you’re bored, browse this site, but don’t expect amazing results. You get what you pay for.
MSN Postjung (Free Website)
A Thai website dedicated to meeting new people and one night stands. Very tough to use if you don’t read and write Thai. You can try google translate, but you’ll find minimal success with this. (Although if you’re fluent in Thai, you can pull an amazing amount of pussy with this website.)
5 Tips For Online Dating in Thailand
- Focus on women from the big cities, Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket, and Chiang Mai
- Higher ratio of responses when contacting the newest members first.
- Beware of scams and ladyboys.
- NEVER send money to a girl you met online. No matter how convincing her story is.
- Paying for membership sucks, but cheaper than hitting the bars and clubs every night.
- Girls with paid memberships are much easier to meet up with than girls with free memberships.
- Don’t expect girls to contact you first, this rarely happens. Send the same standard email to each girl that catches your eye.
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Plenty of Fish and OKCupid are pretty decent for Bangkok. Outside of them useless. Both free too.
Will have to check out those two sites. In my experience, there tends to be higher quality of women on the paid sites. But I’ve seen a few exceptions to that on the free sites.
The successes you tout for these sites are hugely overblown. I have spoken to many guys suckered into these sites and find that they were scammed, spammed, cam-med, damned and flim-flammed. The site administrators seldom verify female members and take their sweet time to remove scam artists. Success is always said to be just around the corner (and just a few dollars away). I realize these sites buy advertising on your site but PLEASE don’t piss down my leg and tell me it’s raining.
I have to disagree with you on this one. I use Thai Love Links and Thai Love Lines all the time when I’m in Bangkok.
Also a lot of my readers use these sites to set up free pussy for when the arrive in Thailand.
But there are scams and ladyboys to watch out for.
Will you find the hottest Thai girls on these websites? No. But you can find some very satisfying women on them.
One more popular websites for Thai chat is
http://www.siam4friend.com
Good Thai girls are waiting for you haha
Ahh, haven’t heard of that one. Will check it out.
Thanks for the tip!
Here’s another recommendation – Skout (iPhone app) it works great in Japan, and I had tonnes of luck too with it in Thailand. As you say the bigger places have more users, but it is free (ad-supported) and you can chat with who like on it. Give it a try!
Is there a way to recognize the scammers on these sites?
There are, but there are also so many different styles of scams online. Nowadays even some douche bag foreigners are pretending to be Thai women to get money sent to them.
My advice is simple:
1- After a couple of messages back and forth, do some skype video chat.
2- NEVER EVER send money to a Thai girl.