As most of you know, I’m a huge fan on online dating in Thailand. Unlike in western countries, you can actually pick up plenty of attractive women in Thailand from the internet.
I use online dating in Thailand when I’m either:
1- Too lazy to go out to bars or clubs.
2- Outside of Thailand visiting family and want to line up women for my return.
When the time comes to meeting these women for the first time, I tend to keep it simple and inexpensive. You don’t want to spend too much time or money on a woman you are meeting for the first time.
The first date is NOT meant to WOW her, it is designed to build a little comfort before you take her home.
Do not try to impress her with fancy diners or expensive wine. Thai people rarely appreciate such things, most of the time they are just as happy with noodle soup which costs about two dollars.
After I’ve spent a few nights talking with the girl on MSN and video chat with Skype, my first dates will always be one of these three:
1- Movie At Home
This will work with about 1 out of 4 girls and will happen more easily if you spend a few nights talking with her on Skype. You simply have her meet you at your home to watch a movie. Tell her you have a few movies you haven’t seen and some good wine or whiskey.
Chat for a little bit, start the movie, and have a few drinks. In a couple hours you should be having sex
Lets face it, sometimes girls don’t look like their photos or you want to meet her before you invite her to your place. For most of my dates I set up a 20 minute meet-and-greet at Starbucks. You chat for a few minutes, check her out, and if she passes the test, you invite her out later that evening or immediately up to your room.
Never understate the power of alcohol and fun to lower inhibitions. You combine that with the promiscuousness of Thailand and you are almost always guaranteed that you will be taking her home that night. If this is more your style, set up the first date a bar or club.
For your first date in Thailand, you want to keep in simple, inexpensive, and a little fun never hurts.